Making Your Lover Come Back for More
In the post-coital bliss of a successful and pleasurable sexual encounter, some people may be troubled by one thought – how can I make sure this isn’t my last time with this person? While the sex may have been incredible for you, it will fade from memory if you don’t find a way to repeat the encounter. Here are some tips for both men and women who are eager to ensure that their skilled partner comes back for more.
The best way to make sure that your partner, whether it be your long-time boyfriend or a girl you just took on a first date, comes back to bed again and again is to avoid selfishness. The worst sex stems from one partner being self-absorbed and forgetting that a good roll in the hay involves giving back to your partner as much as, if not more than, you take for yourself. For this reason, it’s best to have a conversation with your partner about what he or she likes. Talking about sex in advance will make sure you don’t have to distract one another with questions when it comes time to get busy.
Don’t underestimate the power of foreplay. Again, you’ll have to tailor your concept of what foreplay is based on your lover. Some people may want to spend a long time cuddling or head out on a romantic date before they get in the mood, while others might want some oral attention under the sheets. Either way, showing your partner that you care by indulging in the foreplay he or she loves most will definitely make you memorable.
During the actual act of sex, details are important. Using protection is a must, but there’s no need to be boring while playing it safe. Pleasure condoms can amp things up a bit, while still allowing you to protect yourself and your partner. If you’re hunkering down for a marathon in bed, buy several types of condom and see which gets the best reaction.
Once the sex is over, you shouldn’t give up on your attempts to impress and flatter your partner. Offer that special someone a drink or a cup of coffee, and if you’re both feeling up for it, a delicious meal at a nice restaurant. Be sure to let him or her know how much you enjoyed the experience, and that you hope it will happen again soon.