How to get the right kind of attention from the ladies at the bar
Have you ever gone to a bar with high hopes of finding someone to take home, only to wind up alone at the end of the night? Sometimes this can be chalked up to bad luck, but if it’s happening on a regular basis, chances are you may be missing some opportunities to woo the opposite sex. Guys, when it comes to a night out at your local pub, there are some major dos and don’ts to follow if you want to score big.
Dress the part
You may think it’s lame to put too much effort into what you wear, but trust us, the ladies couldn’t disagree more. There’s nothing wrong with a pair of jeans that show off your butt or a trendy shirt that makes your arms look nice. And if you aren’t 100 percent confident about your looks, dressing like you care will give you the extra sexiness you need to find a companion.
You don’t have to break the bank to look good, but before you head out to the bar, take some time to iron your clothing. Leave the sweat pants and ripped T-shirts in your dresser for tomorrow when you wake up, and spend a few minutes in front of the mirror before you head out. Putting a little extra effort into your appearance will go a long way!
Positive attention good, negative attention bad
In elementary school, you might have been OK with getting a girl’s attention by poking her with your pencil, but you’re a grownup now and you should have retired that strategy a long time ago. Now that you’re an adult, it’s time to turn on the charm. The best way to get a girl’s attention is to give her your attention. Show her you’re interested and listen to what she has to say. Once she knows you value her opinion and personality, your chances of getting lucky will increase. And don’t fake it! Nothing turns women off more than a sleazy guy pretending he likes her, when he really only has one thing in mind – getting in her pants.
On a similar note, if you’re going out of your way to make yourself noticed, but you’re also making yourself look like an idiot, you’ve got problems. Take it easy on the drinks – the slurring, drunk mess hardly ever gets the girl. Don’t flex your muscles and start a fight. A violent guy will probably just end up using personal lubricant and his own fist by the end of the night.
Show some respect
Nothing is more important when wooing a woman than showing her respect. You may be extremely horny, but if you’re only thinking with what’s in your pants, you have basically purchased a one-way ticket home alone. It’s essential to show respect to every woman you meet at the bar, not just those you want to date. Women will likely notice how you treat their peers, and if the girl you are trying to impress sees you being rude to one girl, it won’t matter how nice you are to the lady you want.
The chivalry doesn’t end once you get home, either. Make sure you have plenty ofon hand so she knows you take your sexual health seriously. It’s always best to play it safe, especially when you’re making it with someone you recently met.