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Sexy Games You Can Use to Spice up Your Valentine’s Day

You’ve booked a dinner reservation, picked up the perfect gift and set aside a bottle of champagne. Does this mean you’re all ready for a fantastic Valentine’s Day? Not if you haven’t planned some bedroom adventures in your holiday schedule. If you’re looking for a fun and creative way to get down and dirty with your lover this February 14, then consider some of these sexy games.

The food of love

Valentine’s day is all about sweets, so why not bring some of your favorite tasty treats into the bedroom? For starters, grab a blindfold and put it on your boyfriend or girlfriend. Then take turns feeding your lover delicious and sensual foods, like chocolate covered strawberries or tangy slices of kiwi. Your lover won’t know what’s coming, which adds an element of risk (and excitement) to the game. You can put a fun spin on this by putting some of the foods in your own mouth, and then kissing your significant other. He or she will love tasting the mango juice on your lips and tongue as you kiss passionately. When you’re ready for this game to move on to the next stage, grab a few flavored condoms for some oral fun. This way, you’ll still be incorporating food flavors in your routine.Sexy games you can use to spice up your Valentine's Day

Sexy hide and seek

If you know your significant other has to work or take care of errands on Valentine’s Day, you can surprise them with a sexy game the instant they walk in the house. Shortly before they arrive, undress yourself. Place your clothing strategically around the house – perhaps your sweater will be by the front door, while your t-shirt will be strewn over the couch. Set your clothes out so that the leave a trail to wherever you are hiding – completely nude. You can go the traditional route and have your clothes lead your lover to the bedroom, or you can take it to the next level and bring your partner somewhere unusual for sex, such as the kitchen or the car in the garage.

Match my moves

This simple game is a great way to engage in some steamy foreplay. Take turns doing certain “moves” to each other, for example, placing ten kisses on your lover’s neck and collarbone. Once you’ve finished your move, it’s your partner’s turn – he or she will have to do the exact same thing to you. Make the moves more and more complicated (and sexy), and if anyone messes up a move, they have to start over from the beginning. Eventually, you can give up on the “moves,” bust out the personal lubricant and get down to business.

Time for a little roleplay

Roleplaying can be a fun way to add a new dimension to your bedroom routine. Pick two roles that you both think would be fun, such as boss and employee or repairman and housewife. For extra creativity, you can take the roleplay out of the bedroom. For example, why not have one of you take a walk around the block and pretend to be a hitchhiker (who just happens to get picked up by the other member of the relationship). Or you can take a lighter approach and pretend to be meeting for the first time on a blind date that inevitably ends in the bedroom.

Take a gamble

If you and your partner have a competitive edge, then you can use this to your advantage on February 14. Make a harmless bet about something – like whether your server at dinner will be male or female. Whoever wins the bet gets to be in charge of that evening’s bedroom activities.

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