Anyone who is sexually active knows that knocking boots is more than just thrusting. To make the experience pleasurable, there are certain things one must do – and some actions one must absolutely avoid. The Times of India listed a few common mistakes individuals may make when it comes time to get down and dirty.
The news source reminds lovers of the importance of kissing. While a smooch here and there is not completely necessary for sex, locking lips can definitely keep things romantic, intimate and exciting. In the same vein, it’s important to pay attention to more than just your partner’s sex organs. There are plenty of erogenous zones, many of which can be found above the belt.
Some sex positions can be difficult to handle, and it’s important to keep in mind that being on top doesn’t mean putting all your weight on your partner – and that goes for girls as well as guys. Be respectful of your partner’s strength, you may be light, but after a wild time under the sheets, anyone can get worn out.
Of course, the climax has its own set of do’s and don’ts. While this may be easier said than done, reaching your orgasm too soon can be detrimental to the experience. The same goes for taking too long – there’s nothing less hot than getting bored while waiting for your partner to reach the finish line.
Additionally, it’s always polite to inform your partner when you’re about release. Again, this is a rule that should be followed by both men and women.
Talking about condoms and safe sex is also important. According to Planned Parenthood, couples should have conversations about how to use a condom before they take a roll in the hay.