Sometimes, being a woman is all the sex appeal you need to find yourself between the sheets with a man, but other times you might feel like all your efforts are going unnoticed.
So, how do you get the boost you need to turn heads and get noticed by the opposite sex? There are plenty of ways to enhance your sex appeal, and most of them do not require much extra effort – a major bonus for the lazier lady. Here are five ways to unleash your inner sex goddess:
- Do something you love
If you’re feeling a bit low because the male attention has been lagging lately, this mindset is only hurting your chances of getting lucky. The best thing you can do is to take time for yourself. Indulge in a passion, whether you set aside an hour to play your guitar or you schedule a trip to your favorite nail salon. Doing something that makes you feel good will remind you how awesome you can be.
- Hit the gym
It doesn’t matter if you’re a fitness nut or more of a couch potato, getting active is a great way to boost your sex appeal. Not only does exercise release
endorphins that improve your mood, working out also makes you feel physically better – plus, it has the added benefit of helping you shed the extra pounds you may have put on over winter. You’ll really appreciate that you made the effort to get on the treadmill, as exercising can give you more stamina between the sheets.
- Spend extra time primping
Whether you have an elaborate routine for getting ready to go out or you’re
more of a casual gal, taking the time to go through all your beauty regimens can make you feel and look your best when you head to the bar. Spend extra time in the shower, give your hair a full blowout (and use a little product), and maybe take some time to put on makeup. Guys won’t know how long it took you to get ready, but they will notice the girl who looks like she cares about herself and her appearance.
- Wear something nice
Even if your favorite hangout spot is known for being casual, that doesn’t mean you should just throw on a ratty old T-shirt and dirty jeans. You should always look presentable, no matter what your style is. Pick out something clean, and if it’s a bit wrinkly, grab your iron or some anti-wrinkle spray. It’s also a good idea to leave your giant tote bag at home. A big, heavy bag will just be a burden. A small or medium-sized bag is more than enough to stash things you’ll need – condoms, essential makeup items, cash, phone and maybe a clean pair of undies in case you end up staying out all night.
- Get to know yourself more intimately
If you haven’t been having much luck playing the field, there’s no reason your sexual desires have to go unanswered. Grab a bottle of personal lubricant and your favorite toy – we suggest the LifeStyles® a:muse™ Personal Pleasure Massager – and spend some time finding out just what turns you on. That way, you can take control next time you have a guy over and tell him exactly what you like and don’t like. Most guys love a little direction when it comes to navigating your body.